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Favorite little
views on the walk to work. Quick ways of getting through the grocery
store. Strangers on the bus that you see every day, but have never
spoken to. A way to get laundry done after work, and still have
time to see a friend. Everyone's everyday life is loaded with beautiful
little details.
But we have a
bias against them. We never talk about them--which turns these little
routines into little secrets. But what's worse is that we often
don't let ourselves realize just how wonderful these little daily
details really are.
Between January
2008 and February 2011, I ran the Everyday Exchange, which was my
way of getting people to notice these daily details again. It consisted
of an offer: If you got in touch with me, and told me about one
of your daily routines, I would make a present for you based on
what you'd told me. And if you wanted to interview me, and make
me a present--well, that would be nice, too.
The Exchange started
as a website, and an occasional phone call or meeting over coffee--and
culminated in a week-long art show at the now-defunct Meme Gallery
in Cambridge, which was followed by six long months of making intricate
presents for strangers.
While the Exchange
was in business, I asked dozens of friends and strangers about how
they did their laundry. Or what their commute was like. Or what
they did in the morning before they left for work. Every conversation
started the same way: the person I was talking to would gloss over
large details, and seem embarrassed. They'd trail off, and ask me
if I was sure I really wanted to hear about it. Then, suddenly,
there would be a magic little second, when they'd start enjoying
themselves. They'd speak more enthusiastically. And smile. And provide
endless details. They often used the same tone you use when you
start describing a toy you loved when you were a kid. After the
interview, most people said they'd never told anyone about their
routines before.
After the interview,
I would make a present. This would take a few days or weeks, depending
on how intricate it was. One was a pamphlet about the person's routine,
illustrated with pictures taken from Google Images and quotes from
Wikipedia. Another was a fake Shakespearean plays about laundromats.
There was a recording of an epic poem about someone's car commute;
and a board game about a gas station. An audio guide about familiar
strangers on a bus. Some posters. And a coloring book. It was all
very strange. Strange and educational and fascinating for me.
On the right are
a few images of me interviewing people, and delivering presents--
and another few from the art show at Meme Gallery.
I'd like to thank
all of the people who participated. It was an interesting experiment.
Click here
to see the Cambridge Day article on the show.
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(interviewing someone about his routines)

(delivering a present)

(flyer for the art show at Meme)

(a photo of the art show)

(another photo of the art show)
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